Settling Back Into Writing

It seems like everyone but me is writing and publishing and diving head first into their creative endeavors these days.

I follow a blogger who has a 5 month old son and a full time job and still manages to blog three times a week. Many times, the content of her posts arenโ€™t to my tastes, but sheโ€™s a good writer with over 40,000 blog followers and every time I see a new post from her all I can think is fuuuck.

While I have much more time to write than before, I still struggle to actually sit down and do it.ย This past summer was a particularly dry time for creativity as I moved, changed jobs, and tried to focus on slowing down and settling in after a particularly out of control time in my life. Having a panic attack opened my eyes to a new, all-encompassing world of terror. Anxiety drains everything from your life. The only thing left after a panic attackโ€”the only thing you can even think aboutโ€”is anxiety. Every day is a never ending string of frightening thoughts.ย What if I have a panic attack on this bus? What if this train gets stuck in the subway, and I can’t get out? What if I donโ€™t pass this test and I lose my job and I have to start the job hunt all over again and I canโ€™t support myself and I get evicted from my apartment and I have to move back in with my parents and…and…and…?!

You know how it goes.

Luckily, as I settle into my new apartment and into a new routine, Iโ€™ve also been able to gradually stabilize my anxiety. And as anxiety finally takes a back seat to my regular life, I find myself turning more and more to the things that fill me up with hope and peace, including, and especially, writing.*

In my college days, I could sit at the computer and write for hours without moving. In fact, that’s how I preferred to write. If I didn’t have a long afternoon to sit and think before frantically typing my inspirations to the page, then I didn’t want to begin in the first place. Now, I can barely sit at the computer for more than 10 minutes before my mind wanders elsewhere. This is partly thanks to my adult life, which no longer offers me the freedom to sit and ruminate; I often write in the spare minutes I have before going to sleep or going to work, sitting at my desk in the dark, my eyes barely open and my fingers stumbling over the keyboard. I’m also greatly influenced by our internet-driven, ADD culture. I write a paragraph, then check my Facebook. Buy a Groupon, then scribble another half page. I change the song that’s playing, shoot off a quick email, then get back to my piece for another 10-15 minutes. It’s a type of schizophrenia, writing this way.

Ultimately, for me, part of getting back to writing is getting back to the habit of putting my butt in the chair and words on the pageโ€”no moving, no tab collecting, no coming back to it after the dishes are done or the laundry is finished, no picking it up tomorrow when I will be less tired or distracted. (There will never be a day when I’m less tired or distracted.) My desire to write is coming back in full force, and I want to take advantage of this momentum. Even when I’m struggling, when I’m frustrated and annoyed by my lack of ability to capture the right words, writing is the only thing that truly puts my soul at peace.

In the past year, it’s become abundantly clear to me that my future must involve a career in writing, even if it means writing the boring stuff. As Truman Capote said, “To me, the greatest pleasure of writing is not what it’s about, but the inner music that words make.”ย The satisfaction I get in placing one word after the other is unlike any other, and ultimately, scrambling to fit writing sessions into a typical corporate American workday is just not working for me. ย I’m 30 now (!). It’s finally time to create a 5 year plan that brings me closer to that reality.

In the meantime, I’m wracking up ideas for writing projects and setting milestones for myself, albeit flexible ones. I’ve got big plans for this blog and a collection of essays on Ecuador, and I’ve been looking into volunteering for a writing-based nonprofit in the city. My boyfriend and I have also been talking quite seriously about finally bringing our idea for a musical to fruition, and although I’ve never attempted to write musical theater, I can’t stop jotting down little snippets of dialogue, dreaming of putting lyrics on paper, and ultimately pitching the idea to producers. (Is that what you even do?)

For now, I’m relieved and immensely grateful to have the time and mental capacity to write. ย More than ever, I’m also confident that if I keep believing in this dream and keep writing when I can, my dream of producing beautiful work will soon be a reality.

* Those who live with anxiety know that stabilizing that anxiety is not as easy, natural, or effortless as I make it sound, but that’s another post entirely.

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3 thoughts on “Settling Back Into Writing

  1. Hi ๐Ÿ™‚ I can totally relate to this! Sometimes I get overwhelmed with everything else that’s going on with my life, and I just lose all motivation to blog and write. It gets that way sometimes. I think it’s alright when this happens, as long as you have a long term goal/vision with what you want to do. For some people, including myself, it’s not a goal about getting published. I think that’d be great, but I think my skills, time and effort are better suited for other things. But creative writing and blogging is therapeutic and one of my favorite things to do, so I do it for myself primarily. If you want more technical and ideological tips, however, I have a section on my blog dedicated to helping others stick with blogging and achieve their writing goals:
    http://catherinezhang.me/category/and-much-more/meta-writing/

    1. What a great idea, Catherine! Thanks so much for the idea and for checking out my blog. I will definitely take a look at your tips. One can never have too many pieces of wisdom. ๐Ÿ™‚

  2. To be honest i think being a creative person myself it is easier to write when you have a hectic schedule. Like thoughts just pop to your head and you get excited to write bout them so make up time. In bus or metro or just stand somewhere for 5 mins, or even excuse ourselves to the washroom xD Those writer “high times ” are easier to write in.

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